Divorce cases involving children can often become contentious. The parents may have vastly different ideas about what is best for their children and how custody arrangements should be handled. In some divorce cases, parents make allegations of neglect or abuse against each other, further complicating the matter.

Illinois judges want to ensure that parental responsibilities and parenting time arrangements are established based on what is in the child's best interests. In order to do this, a child representative may be assigned to a divorce or family law case.

What is a Child Representative in Illinois?

Child representatives are attorneys appointed to represent a child in a legal case. Just as an attorney would have an attorney-client relationship with an adult, a child representative has an attorney-client relationship with the child and represents the child during the legal proceeding.

Mental health has never been a more crucial issue than it is now. The rates of depression, anxiety, and other mental health conditions have skyrocketed in recent years. If you or your child's other parent struggles with a mental health condition, you may have questions about how mental health evaluations are used during Illinois child custody cases.

Mental health evaluations are sometimes used to help the court make an informed decision in a custody dispute. Either parent can request a mental health evaluation of the other parent, or the judge may require a parent to undergo psychological testing. Read on to learn about how and when these types of tests are ordered and how the results can influence child custody matters.

When is Psychological Testing Required?

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reports that over one in five people in the United States currently suffers from a mental illness of some kind. Some of the most common mental illnesses include depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, and schizophrenia. Many people with mental health conditions are competent, loving parents. However, there are situations in which a parent’s mental health condition could pose a danger to the child. An Illinois court will only order psychological testing if there is a significant concern about a parent's mental health or behavior.

If your spouse is threatening to divorce you, it can be a stressful and emotional time. While taking the situation seriously is essential, protecting your rights and interests is also vital. Consider consulting with a divorce attorney to understand to get an idea of the divorce process as well as your options during this time.

Do These Things Right Now if Your Spouse is Threatening to Divorce

Here are some essential considerations if your spouse is threatening to divorce you, including:

• Seek legal advice – One of the first things you should do is seek legal advice. An experienced divorce lawyer can help you understand your legal rights and options, provide guidance and support throughout the divorce process, and work to protect your interests and assets. 

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 Substance abuse can be a challenging issue in divorce cases. If one spouse struggles with addiction, it can impact the entire family and create significant legal and emotional challenges. For anyone interested in getting a divorce from a partner who suffers from a substance abuse problem, there are essential considerations you must be aware of regarding how your spouse’s substance abuse may affect divorce proceedings. Divorce attorneys are keenly aware of how difficult this situation can be. Consult with an attorney, share your concerns, and create a plan with your attorney for how best to address the problem. 

Divorce Issues That May Be Affected by Your Spouse’s Addiction

Child custody is one of the most significant issues in divorce cases involving substance abuse. If one parent is struggling with addiction, having unsupervised visitation with their children may not be safe. In some cases, limiting or restricting the other parent’s access to the children may be necessary to ensure their safety.

Substance abuse can also impact the division of assets in a divorce case. For example, if one spouse struggles with addiction, they may have spent significant marital assets on drugs or alcohol. This may be considered dissipation of assets which can impact the division of assets and may require the input of financial professionals and forensic accountants. 

A prenuptial agreement, sometimes called a prenup, is a legal agreement between two people planning to marry. Essentially, the agreement outlines how the couple's property and assets will be divided in case of divorce. Furthermore, prenuptial agreements are an important consideration for many couples prior to getting married. However, bringing up the topic of a prenuptial agreement can sometimes lead to unexpected reactions from your fiancé. Today, we will discuss what you should do if your spouse gets angry at the idea of getting a prenup.

If you are interested in prenuptial agreements and what they may entail, contact an experienced family law attorney to understand better the process and the potential benefits signing such an agreement may have. 

What to Do if Your Spouse Reacts Negatively to the Idea

It is not uncommon for people to be uncomfortable regarding the topic of prenups. Some people believe prenups to be unromantic and that by signing a prenup, you thereby admit that your marriage will likely end in divorce. Accordingly, if your spouse becomes upset when you mention the possibility of a prenup, here are some steps you can take:

When going through a divorce, it is not uncommon for one spouse to attempt to hide or dissipate assets in order to prevent their spouse from receiving an equitable amount of their assets. This can be a frustrating and stressful experience, but there are several telltale signs that your spouse may be attempting to dissipate assets. Today, we are going to discuss what several of those signs are. If your marriage is heading towards divorce, consider contacting knowledgeable divorce attorneys to lawfully complete the divorce process while ensuring your rights remain protected and advocated for. 

What is the Definition of Dissipating Assets? 

Dissipating assets refers to the intentional or reckless use, depletion, or destruction of marital assets by one spouse for their own benefit or to prevent the other spouse from receiving their fair share of those assets in a divorce settlement. If you can prove that your spouse dissipated assets, the court may distribute the rest of the marital estate in a way that compensates you for this loss. 

Signs Your Spouse May Be Dissipating Assets 

Look out for these signs which may signify your spouse is trying to dissipate assets, including:

In Illinois, non-marital property refers to assets owned by one spouse individually. These assets are not subject to division during divorce proceedings. While marital property is divided equitably between both parties, the non-marital property remains with the spouse who owns it. However, it is essential to note that determining what constitutes non-marital property can be a complex process. 

Today, we are going to discuss what is most important to know regarding non-marital property in Illinois. If you are getting a divorce, contact an experienced divorce attorney who will work to ensure you understand your rights and that a positive outcome can be pursued.

Understanding Non-Marital Property 

Non-marital property refers to assets acquired before the marriage, gifts or inheritances given specifically to one spouse, or any property acquired after a legal separation. In Illinois, any property obtained before the marriage is considered non-marital property. For example, a vehicle that a spouse owned before getting married is his or her sole property. The same is true for other assets like real estate or business assets. Furthermore, debts acquired before a marriage are typically classified as non-marital debt. 

The dissipation of assets is a term used to describe the improper use of marital assets by one spouse before a divorce. In divorce cases in Chicago and elsewhere, the dissipation of assets can significantly impact the distribution of property and assets between spouses. If one spouse is found to have dissipated assets, a court may consider this when determining the division of assets in a divorce case. For a court to make a finding of dissipation, it must be shown that the assets were used for a purpose unrelated to the marriage and that the use of assets reduced their value. This could include using marital funds for a mistress, buying expensive gifts for friends, or squandering money on gambling or drugs. 

Suppose you are getting divorced and believe your spouse is engaged in behavior that qualifies as dissipating assets, or you have uncovered information during divorce proceedings that give you a reason to believe your spouse has been involved in this behavior in the past. In that case, an experienced attorney can help you make sense of the situation and provide guidance moving forward through the divorce proceedings. 

The Impact of Dissipation of Assets in Divorce Cases

The impact of dissipation of assets can significantly affect divorce proceedings and may reduce the offending spouses' share of marital assets. However, the dissipation of assets is a complex issue that can be difficult to prove. To prove dissipation, a spouse must provide clear and convincing evidence of the improper use of assets. This can involve tracking financial transactions, gathering witness statements, and reviewing bank records.

When most people turn 18, the dawn of adulthood, it is generally assumed that individuals of this age accept the responsibilities and rights of legal adulthood. However, for adults with disabilities, turning 18 often presents new challenges, as they may be unable to control their own property, assets, and affairs. 

In other cases, an adult becomes disabled later in life due to Alzheimer’s disease or another serious medical condition. Adults with disabilities may be appointed a guardian to protect their best interests. 

The process of obtaining an adult guardianship can be complicated, as many difficult but necessary questions must be answered, like whether a guardian is even required, who is best suited to become a guardian, and what type of responsibility the guardian should have. This blog will delve deeper into adult guardianships in Illinois. 

There is no question that divorce is rarely ever easy, regardless of how long you and your spouse have been married. However, if you and your spouse have been married for a long time, the drastic changes that come with divorce and the long list of things that must be sorted out will likely be more complex and burdensome than a married couple divorcing after just a year or two of marriage. Sometimes, a marriage may drag on for years or even decades because neither partner wants to deal with the divorce and all the issues that a divorce will entail. 

There tend to be additional divorce concerns for older adults who are leaving their marriages. In this blog, we will take a closer look at what some of those concerns may be. Notably, contacting a knowledgeable divorce attorney can make all the difference in the world if you are interested in pursuing a divorce. While nothing will make the process easy per-say, having a lawyer by your side to advocate for you and your best interests will likely make the process smoother overall. 

What to Consider When Leaving a Long Marriage

If you are in a long-term marriage, you likely have settled into a routine that is years, maybe even decades, in the making. Divorce will upend this routine entirely, which you need to be ready for. Additional special considerations for people leaving long-term marriages include the following:

Unlike a prenuptial agreement, a postnuptial agreement is a binding agreement spouses enter into after they are already married. Postnuptial agreements have the potential to resolve a great many issues in a divorce before they can become issues. Postnuptial agreements can address property concerns, spousal maintenance, and other matters. It is important retain legal counsel when considering a postnuptial agreement so you can be confident you are entering into a favorable agreement.

Postnuptial Agreements in Illinois

Postnuptial agreements are often used to differentiate marital property from non-marital property. In a divorce, marital property is divided between the spouses and non-marital property is assigned to the spouse who originally owned the property. Classifying property in preparation for division during divorce can be complicated and often leads to disagreements. A postnuptial agreement can be used to classify property before a marriage breaks down so there is no question as to whether an asset is marital or non-marital. 

Postnuptial agreements are also often used to describe spousal maintenance terms. When one spouse gives up career advancement to be a homemaker or stay-at-home parent, they may worry about how they will make ends meet if the marriage breaks down. A postnuptial agreement can define spousal maintenance terms in advance. 

A Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) is an attorney appointed by the court in a case involving children such as a divorce or child custody dispute. The GAL’s role is to investigate the circumstances of the dispute and determine what he or she believes to be the child’s best interests.. A judge’s decision to assign a GAL depends on numerous factors. Often, a GAL is appointed when the judge wants further information and professional insight in a case. Either party in a child custody case or divorce may request a GAL. 

A GAL is often assigned in contested cases involving allocation of parenting time and responsibility. The GAL conducts their own investigation into what is going on with a child, interviewing parents, children, and possibly third parties.

A GAL’s Role in a Child-Related Case 

It is important to note that while GAL stands for Guardian Ad Litem, the GAL will not be a guardian. Guardians have legal authority over minors or wards, but GALs do not. 

It is far from uncommon for either spouse in a divorce to try and hide certain assets while both parties are still in the middle of determining their property’s value. Illinois is an equitable distribution state, meaning that assets in a divorce are split equitably, which might not necessarily mean equally.

The size of assets being hidden can vary, but it can be a good idea to take a closer look if you believe your spouse could be hiding assets. A further of an examination of certain factors can occasionally lead to a surprising finding.

Ways Spouses Hide Assets

Every divorce is different, but some of the more common ways in which spouses may try to hide assets can include:

When a married couple knows their relationship is on its way out, divorce often seems like the only logical option. Legal separation is another type of separation you can file in court to recognize that you will now be living apart, but it does not have quite the same final effect as a divorce.

Legal separation can be particularly helpful for married couples who have important health insurance benefits dependent upon the couple remaining married. It can also benefit people who may belong to a religion forbidding divorce or who are just not sure whether divorce is quite right yet.

Divorce Issues During Legal Separation

A person begins a legal separation by submitting a petition establishing that they are living separate and apart from their spouse and supplying information similar to a dissolution of marriage petition. The person will be required to file for legal separation in the county where either their spouse resides, they both resided as husband and wife, or if a spouse cannot be located in Illinois, the county in which the person petitioning for legal separation resides.

Retirement funds and pensions can be some of the most valuable assets owned by a married couple, and ownership of these assets will need to be addressed during a divorce. In Illinois, these assets are subject to equitable distribution. This means that they will be divided fairly, but not necessarily exactly equally, between the divorcing spouses. When making decisions about these assets and taking steps to transfer or allocate funds between spouses, it is important to follow the correct procedures. A qualified family law attorney can provide invaluable guidance and ensure that a person's rights and financial interests will be protected during the divorce process.

Evaluating and Dividing Retirement Accounts

In Illinois, all property and assets acquired during a marriage are considered “marital property” and are subject to equitable distribution in a divorce. This includes retirement accounts such as 401(k)s and IRAs.

The first step in dividing retirement accounts is determining their value. This can be done by using account statements or other documentation to calculate the current balance of each account. Once the value of the accounts has been determined, they can be divided between the divorcing spouses either through negotiation or by court order.

If you and your spouse have decided to divorce, you will be tasked with creating a child custody agreement that will work for both of you as well as for your child. You will want to make sure that you have a solid parenting plan in place so that there are stability and routine for your child during this time of transition. One issue that you may have to consider is whether the right of first refusal should be included in your child custody agreement.

The right of first refusal is the right of one parent to be given the opportunity to care for their child before anyone else. This means that if the other parent is unable to care for the child for any reason, the parent with the right of first refusal would be contacted first to see if they are available to fill in. This may mean that grandparents or other family members would only handle care for children if the other parent is unavailable.

There are a number of reasons that the right of first refusal may benefit you, your spouse, and your child. However, there are some downsides to consider as well. By evaluating the circumstances of your specific situation, the needs of all parties involved, and the best ways to avoid potential conflict, you can determine how to handle issues related to the right of first refusal as you determine how to handle child custody during your divorce.

In the past, most spouses resolved their divorces in court through litigation. It was frequently a strenuous process, even for those in less contentious relationships. Today, divorce techniques involving compromise and negoiation provide an effective alternative to divorce litigation. While amiability can be helpful in reaching a satisfactory compromise on each issue, it is not necessary. Even warring spouses can avoid the stress and cost of litigation by using alternative dispute resolution methods that do not require them to work together directly. Attorney-facilitated negotiation and certain styles of mediation can work well for those who cannot hold a civil conversation or tolerate being in close proximity to their spouse. Resolving a divorce out of court is often in each party’s mutual interests, so it is often possible for spouses to come to an agreement. If you are interested in resolving your high-conflict divorce out of court, it is important to hire an attorney who is a skilled negotiator. 

Tips for Resolving a Contentious Divorce Out of Court 

Taking your case to litigation to spite one another is not likely to leave you in a more advantageous position than an uncontested divorce would unless your spouse truly will not participate in good faith. Tips for succeeding in reaching an agreement despite a high level of conflict include: 

• Stay apart - Often, bringing spouses face to face raises the level of conflict and makes it less likely that a resolution will be reached. It may be wiser to pursue a method of mediation or negotiation that does not involve being in the presence of your spouse or speaking with them directly. 

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When you have been married for a very long time, divorce can be a drastic change for you and your entire family. It can be challenging to go from being partnered to living solo after a long-lasting marriage. Yet for many spouses who divorce after decades of marriage, the divorce has been a long time coming. You may have felt that your marriage was no longer working out years ago, but delayed your divorce for a number of reasons. Some spouses wait until their children have flown the coop, or spend years separated without actually ending the marriage. 

There are specialized divorce concerns for older adults leaving long-term marriages. Everything from working out alimony to dividing substantial marital assets and untangling complex financial situations can be a little different. It is important to work with an experienced divorce attorney when you are seeking to end a lengthy marriage. 

Things to Think About When You Are Ending a Long Marriage

In a long-term marriage, you and your spouse likely settled into a pattern of life that is now changing. Some special concerns you should be aware of include: 

It has become a common trope in movies and music to portray a wealthy person who gets married and subsequently divorced losing half of his—usually the subject is a man—property to his ex-spouse, regardless of the fact that he owned most of the same assets at the time of the marriage. While such a cliché situation is technically possible under the law in some states, the reality in Illinois is generally much different.

Fair Does Not Always Mean Equal

Property division following a divorce in Illinois can be rather complicated, as the law requires marital assets to be divided according to what is equitable and just. While this could result in a clean 50/50 split, there is no guarantee. Rather, the specific circumstances of the marriage, divorce, and expected post-divorce realities must be taken into account to determine the appropriate allocation of assets.

Yours, Mine, or Ours?

The other major point that television portrayals of divorce get tend to get wrong involves what property should and should not be subject to division. In Illinois, only assets that are considered to be part of the marital estate are to be included in the process, not absolutely everything owned by either spouse. The law provides that marital property is any property acquired by either spouse during the course of the marriage with very limited exceptions for gifts and inheritances. Generally, this also means that any property that a spouse owned prior to the marriage is not part of the marital estate. There are ways that separate property may become marital property, and such situations can be very complex.

As a divorced or single parent, you understand how challenging it can be to provide all the things your child needs to thrive. In an ideal situation, your child’s other parent would also be committed to helping, both financially and as an active participant in the child’s life. But what happens when you want to pursue opportunities that would force you to relocate to a new city or state with your child? Do you have the right to simply pick up and move? As with most issues of family law and co-parenting, the answer depends on the circumstances of your particular situation.

Evolving Laws

For many years, the laws in Illinois were fairly subjective about moving with your child. While there was no specific prohibition or distance limitations for an in-state move, if the move presented major obstacles to an existing custody or visitation order, it could potentially be challenged in court. An out-of-state move with a child subject to a custody or visitation order statutorily required the other parent’s consent or an overriding court order.

Thanks to changes in the law that were made a few years ago, the expectations and restrictions on moving with a child are now much clearer. As part of the update that transformed child custody into the allocation of parental responsibilities, lawmakers made the entire statute far easier to understand for all parties involved.